For the Child Who Doesn’t Hear You Ask

Four lines you can say out loud tonight. Word for word. Free to save.

What to say

1. Cleanup starts in two minutes. I will say it once more when the timer beeps.

2. Not hearing me is easier than starting. That is a choice, not a character flaw.

3. The blue basket is by your feet. Ten blocks go in it before the timer beeps again.

4. You can start with the blocks or the cars. Pick one and I start the count with you.

When to use it

This is for the moment it actually goes wrong — not the calm version you rehearse in the car. Pick one line. Say it once. Then stop talking and wait three seconds. If they push back, repeat the same line, not a new one. Say the same thing for five nights before you decide it doesn't work.