For the Child Who Loses a Game and Explodes

Four lines you can say out loud tonight. Word for word. Free to save.

What to say

1. Losing is part of the game. The tablet stays on the table while you cool off.

2. Losing stings most when you were close, and that sting is real.

3. Two minutes with the game paused, then you decide whether to play again or stop.

4. You say which one, and either answer is fine with me.

When to use it

This is for the moment it actually goes wrong — not the calm version you rehearse in the car. Pick one line. Say it once. Then stop talking and wait three seconds. If they push back, repeat the same line, not a new one. Say the same thing for five nights before you decide it doesn't work.